ASTROLOGER IN CHENNAI

Showing posts with label Marriage Astrology. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Marriage Astrology. Show all posts

Monday, 1 December 2014

RAHU - THE ASTROLOGICAL FALL GUY

Mis-conceptions about the Rahu/Kethu: Is the Rahu/Kethu can be blamed for all the ills?

There are general trend among the Astrologers to blame the Rahu/Kethu for all the ills. Also the Public (in general) treat most of the problems are created by the Rahu and Kethu doshas. Is it true? Let us analyse this problem in detail. Let us find out the important beliefs about the Rahu and Ketu.

The Rahu/Ketu do not posses any major qualities by its own except for few (we shall study the qualities of Rahu & Ketu separately). The Rahu/Kethu will actually mirror the qualities of the House Lord, where it is placed. Hence blaming the Rahu and kethu for all the marriage problems & child birth will leads us to no-where. Astrologers keep both the Rahu/Ketu as the "Whipping Boys"

What is the meaning of Whipping Boys?

A whipping boy was a young boy who was assigned to a young prince and was punished when the prince misbehaved or fell behind in his schooling. Whipping boys were established in the English court during the monarchies of the 15th century and 16th centuries.

The 15th & 16th Century ideas are being implemented by the modern day Astrologers by keeping both the Rahu and Ketu as the Whipping Boys for the wrongdoing of other planets. 

Marriage Delays (Rahu & Kethu Dosham): If the Rahu and Ketu are placed in the 1st, 2nd, 5th, 7th, 8th & 11th house, then the Marriage is held up due to Rahu or Kethu dosha or in general they call it "Naga Dosha or Sarpa Dosha". But in actual reality the marriage can be delayed due to various reasons.

1. The problem with the 2nd & 7th house lords.

2. Existence of "Pithru Dosham" in the family.

3. Passing through a unfavourable Mahadasa or Antardasa periods.

4. Unfavourable transit period of 7th house lord from the Moon sign.

5. Mental/Physical infirmity of the concerned person.

6. Passing through an unfavourable or weak 2nd & 7th house lord Dasa or its sub periods in the Navamsa Chart and/or Trimshamsha chart.

7. Passing through an unfavourable 7th house lord dasa or its sub periods, when there is an existence of "Kalathra Dosha" (combination of 7th house lord with 6th and/or 8th house lords) in the Navamsa or/and Trimshamsha charts.

Instead of analysing the horoscope for correct reasons, the general trend is to blame it on the "Rahu" or "Ketu" or both. Without identifying the exact troubles, if anyone tries hard to conduct Marriage after completing the Pariharams for the doshas created by the Rahu, Kethu, they may not able to get any significant results. This could bring in frustrations or people will lose faith in the Astrology or simply the Astrologers are labelled as "cheats".

Author's View:

1. Don't think that only Rahu and Ketu can play havoc in your marriage life and in child birth.

2. Don't conclude that the existence of Rahu/Ketu in the 1st, 2nd, 5th, 7th and 8th house will damage your marriage life or prospects.

3. Don't conclude that the difficulty in conceiving is always being created by the Rahu/Kethu.

4. Don't blame the Astrology for your mis-readings of your chart.

5. You can't expect to get any good results, if you continue to beat the bush for Rahu/kethu doshas without verifying the facts.

Go to RAHU: THE FORCE MULTIPLIER (PART-1)

RAHU: THE FORCE MULTIPLIER (PART 2)

HOW DOES THE RAHU MAHADASA WORKS?

KETU: THE GREAT DOWNER

Friday, 21 December 2012

IS MAGHAM YOUR SON-IN-LAW'S NAKSHATRA?

There are lot of hype among the Public about selecting a bride with Moolam, Visakam, Ayilyam, Kettai etc., The parents of the bridegroom chose to reject the Girl's having their birth star as mentioned above. They just go by the so called "Proverb" and come out with their conclusions. They never attempt to anayze the Rasi Kundali (Natal Horoscope) and find out the truth.

But accepting or rejecting a Girl on the basis of heresay of a Proverb is a condemnable act. As per the Vedic Astrology, there are certain norms of selection and rejection are defined on the basis of Planetary position and Birth star (Jenma Nakshatra) of the Boy too.


If the Bridegroom/ Boy's Jenma Nakshatra (Birth Star) is Magham, then think multiple times before giving your daughter's hand to the Boy. Let us see the effects of having Son-in-law with Magham as the Jenma Nakshatra.


1. The relationship between the Magham Boy and his Son-in-law would turn sour and bitter.


2. The Magham Boy may not maintain a proper working relationship with his father-in-law.


3. The Magham boy may not allow his wife to speak to her father/relations.


4. The Magham Boy might ill-treat his father-in-law or may not give him his due respect.


5. The Magham Boy might marry a Girl, whose father already might have expired.


6. The Magham Boy might live away in a distant place, where it may not be possible for his Father-in-law to see and speak to her daughter on a regular basis.


7. There could be danger to the physical saftey to the father-in-law, whose son-in-law's Jenma Nakshatra is Magham.


Note:  


1. The Magham Boy may maintain cordial relationship with his wife.


2. These different predictions are possible on the basis of the Rasi Kundali of the Girl's father.


Hence analyze your Rasi Kundali in a proper manner, before committing marriage of your daughter to a Magham Boy.  

Sunday, 9 December 2012

WHAT HAPPENS TO MOOLAM FEMALES MARRIAGE?

There is a popular proverb "Female Moolam is Nirmolam" (total destruction). This literally means that anyone marrying females born with Moolam as their Birth Star (Jenma Nakhsathara) would meet the total destruction. Is it true? There are also some other Proverb that connects with other Nakhsathra's (Star) like Ayilyam, Kettai and Visakam for the females.

Actually what happens to a person, who marry a girl with Moolam, Ayilyam, Kettai or Visakam as her Birth Star (Jenma Nakhsathara). First let us see, what the Vedic Astrology tells about these Nakshathara's. Given below are the table that contains the possible effects of marrying a girl with these above mentioned Nakhsathras (stars). 

Serial No
Girl's Birth Star (Jenma Nakshathara)
Results
1
Moolam
Dosha to Mother-in-law
2
Ayilyam
Dosha to Father-in-law
3
Kettai
Dosha to Brother-in-law (Elder)
4
Visakam
Dosha to Brother-in-law(Younger)

But will these results mirror in everybody's life?. Let us study the possible effects of getting married to a girl with these Jenma Naksatharas (Stars). Here the In-laws denotes Father-in-law, Mother-in-law and Brother-in-law according to the Birth Star (Jenma Naksatharas).

1. They (Both the Girl and her in laws) may not live together; they may live separately due to their professional requirements.

2. They may get separated due to friction on their family relationships.

3. The relationship between both the Girl and their In laws might get starined.

4. The health of the In laws might be affected.

5. The In-laws could face critical moments in their life.

The above results are possible only if there are any problems detected in the Natal Horoscopes of concerned In-laws. That is, problem with the health of a Father-in-law of a Moolam girl is possible only if his Natal Chart indicates a health problem. 

EXAMPLES:

A person with good health (predicted according to the Natal Horoscope) do not get hospitalized, just because his Son gets married to a Moolam girl.

A Women do not die, just because her Son gets married to a Ayilyam Girl, if her Life longevity is stronger according to her Natal horoscope. 

CONCLUSION: 

The Natal Chart is stronger and the results reflects directly on the life of every person. These Porutham's (Marriage Matches) do not have any power to over rule the results of a Horoscope. Thus the effects would happen only if the Natal Horoscope also delivers the concurrent results. 

Hence the Natal Horoscope has to be analyzed for the proper effects of getting married to the Girls of Ayilyam, Moolam, Kettai and Visakam. Read Marriage Astrology for multiple information

Saturday, 24 November 2012

MARRIAGE ASTROLOGY: WHO IS UNFIT TO BE YOUR HUSBAND?

The Marriage of the Girl's are often finalised by taking consideration of the following factors of the Boy.

1. Economic status 

2. Job/Profession security

3. Family status.

4. Physical appearence.

5. Character.

Unfortunately in India, most of the marriages are finalized as per consideration of the above factors in the given order only. That is, Character is given the least importance. Most of the parents accept the face value of the assurance given by some unknown or distantly known person about the character of the boy. Thus the parents gamble with the future of their own daughters. 

Everybody looks smart, humble, cordial, adjusting and humorous too before the Marriage. But the same Boy looks differently after the Marriage. The Marriage turns sour and disappointment sometimes within a month itself. It could be due to various reasons.

1. The Boy remains insensitive.

2. The Boy may be suspicious.

3. The Boy may mentally or physically abuse the Girl.

4. The Boy may not have neat habits.

5. The Boy may have illegal or immoral sexual interests.

6. The Boy may be lazy and may not maintain any hygeine.

7. The Boy may be very rude; might be interested in acquiring wealth in an illegal manner.

8. The Boy speaks everything except the truth.

But these are internal factors, which is privy only to those who are closer to the Boy. But getting into a wedlock, the Girl would be into a tricky position. To avoid these type of situation, the guidance of Vedic astrology is required. Let us see the Planetary position of the Boy who might have these factors. 

1. The Lagna Lord getting debilitated, combusted by the Sun, moving in retrograde manner or gets Thithi Sunyam.

2. The Lagna Lord staying in conjuction and aspection with 3rd, 6th, 8th and 12th house Lords.

3. The placement of Lagna Lord in the 3rd, 6th, 8th and 12th house.

4. The presence of any debilitated Planets in the Lagna.

5. The Presence of 3rd, 6th, 8th and 12th house lords in the Lagna.

6. The presence of Mars, Raghu, descending Moon and Saturn in the Lagna or association of these planets with the  Lagna Lord.

7. The presence of Mars in 6th, 7th and 8th house.

8. The combination of Mars and Venus in Lagna, 4th, 7th, 8th, 10th and 12th house.

9. The combination of Moon and Venus in 2nd, 4th, 7th, 8th, 10th and 12th house.

10. The combination of Sun and Venus in 2nd, 4th, 7th and 8th house.

11. The combination of Sun and Mars, Sun and Raghu in any house.

12. The combination of Saturn and Mars in any house.

13. The combination of descending Moon and Raghu in any house.

14. The association of Lagna Lord with 3rd house Lord.

15. The 11th house Lord stronger than 7th house Lord.

16. The 7th house lord getting debilitated or getting associated with 6th, 8th and 12th house lord.

17. The presence of 7th house lord in the 6th, 8th and 12th house.

18. The presence of 6th, 8th and 12th house lord in the 7th house.

19. The 7th house lord traversing through the Star that is owned by the 6th, 8th and 12th house lords.

20. The Lagna or 7th house lord getting affected by Vainasika Dosham.

21. The 7th house lord getting combusted by Sun or moving in a retrograde manner. 

These are some of the important planetary position that would indicate that the Boy will be possesing some negative qualities. It is better to be on the safer side and select a good hubby. Rushing to a wedlock and regretting after the marriage should be avoided. 

Go to Marriage Astrology for plenty of valuable information

Friday, 23 November 2012

MARRIAGE ASTROLOGY: WHO IS UNFIT TO BE YOUR WIFE?

The Boys always have dream of marrying a wonderful girl with following characterestics. 

1. Good looking
2. Amicable 
3. Pliable 
4. Adjusting
5. Harmonius
6. Brilliant
and so on. But not even 1 in 1 lakh will have all these qualities. But if atleast few qualities are met, then the Boy will have a happy married life. Here "Good looking quality" can easily be accessed. "Brilliance" can be tested  with few interactions; also through her educational levels.

But what about character? Everyone will deliver the extraordinary good character certificate for all girls, before and at the time of Marriage. The real character of a girl would come to play only after the Marriage. By that time, the marraige can not be reversed and the real damage would have been done. 


You should avoid the girls with the below mentioned planetary positions, while considering for the marriage.


1. The Debiltation of Lagna Lord and 4th house Lord.

2. The Presence of Lagna Lord and 4th house Lord in malefice house.

3. The Conjuction and aspection of Lagna and Lagna Lord with malefic planets.

4. The Lagna, 4th house Lord and the Lagna Lord getting afflicted by the deadly "Vainasika Dosha".

5. The presence of Raghu in the Lagna and 4th house; and association of Raghu with Lagna Lord.

6. The Combination of Sun and Mars in any house is considered highly inauspicious.

7. The Combination of Mars and Venus in Lagna, 4th, 7th, 8th and 12th house is unwelcome. 

8. The Combination of Moon and Venus in Lagna, 4th, 7th and 10th house is considered inappropriate.

9. The Combination and aspection of Saturn and Mars is considered as "most unlucky". 

10. The presence of any debilitated planets in the Lagna and the 4th house. 

The most important planetary positions are given. If a girl's horoscope has maximum number of Yes answers for this above points, then it is better to keep some safe distance away from the particular girl. You should not jump into conclusion with a little knowledge of astrology; it is better to get it analyzed with a trained astrologer. 

Go to Marriage Astrology for valuable information

CAN WE DO SAME STAR MARRIAGE?


If  a boy and a girl with same Birth star can opt for marriage among themselves?

Yes, the same star marriage is possible on the people, who has the following star as their Birth Star.

1. Rohini
2. Thiruvathira
3. Pusam
4. Magham
5. Hastham
6. Thiruvonam

The marriages between the couples having any of the above mentioned  star as their Birth Star can be rated as "Excellent".

1. Aswini
2. Kiruthigai
3. Mirugasirisa
4. Punarpusam
5. Uthiram
6. Chittirai
7. Anusham
8. Uthiradam

The marriages between the couples having their Birth Star from any one of the above mentioned eight stars are considered as "Average".


IMPORTANT CONDITION:


There is an important condition to be fulfilled in the event of Same Star Marriage @ the Boy's Star path should come before the Star path of the girl. If this condition is not fulfilled, then the approval for same star marriage stands cancelled. 

Go to Marriage Astrology for valuable information

Tuesday, 13 November 2012

MARRIAGE ASTROLOGY: TIPS TO HAVE GOOD BRIDE

Everyone desires to have good mannered girl as their Daughter in law. But how to find the character of a girl before the marraige. Every girl looks amicable, smart, good looking and respectful in the pre marriage era. But in the post marriage period, some of those girl turns lazy, aggresive, shrewd and troublesome. 


To break this logjam, the boy's parents has to verify the following points in the girl's horoscope.


1. The Lagna and the Rasi should be in the female sign. The Lagna Lord should also be in the female sign.

2. The Lagna Lord should not be associated in any way with malefice planets or malefic houses.

3. There should not be any association of Sun & Mars in any house.

4. There should not be any association of Saturn & Mars in any house.

5. The Lagna, 7th and 8th house should be empty.

6. The Raghu & Kethu should not be placed in 2nd, 4th, 8th and 10th house.

7. The 4th house lord should not have any association with malefic planets; the 4th house lord should not be weakened or debilitated. 

8. 7th house lord should not be associated with 6th, 8th and 12th house & its lords. 

9. The association of Mars & Venus, Sun & Venus and Moon & Venus should be in the benefic house only.

10. The combination of Moon & Raghu is also quite undesirable.

If you can find a girl, whose horoscope scores "No" answer for most of the above question, then you will be lucky to have a admirable Daughter in law. 

It is better to be late than never; analyze the horoscope fully before the marriage and do not repent for it later. 

Go to Marriage Astrology for valuable information

MEDICAL ASTROLOGY: WHAT IS MANGALIK?

As per the Medical Astrology, the Mars is responsible for the heat that has been generated within the body. Those who has Mars in 2nd, 4th, 6th, 8th and 12th house would have excessive heat in their body. 

By getting married to a person, who enjoys normal temperature in his/her body their sexual interaction would not be conducive. 


Also the difference in Blood temperature (Body temperature) may not be conducive in conceiving too. The difficulties in conceiving and delivering a baby could happen because of this issue. The different type of Blood group could harm the normal delivery of a baby. Thus in olden days the women or baby would have died because of complications during the child birth. Or it would have created a martial discard among the couples leading to the separation. 

So our anscestors might have studied this aspect @ relationship between this medical exgiencies and placement of Mars in the particular houses. So they might have named it as Mangalik or Chevva Dosha and avoided the people getting married. They might have given probable causes that would happen if any of the boy or girl becomes Mangalik.

As per the Vedic Astrology, a boy with Mangalik dosha has to marry a girl with the same Mangalik dosha. Thus our anscestore knew that the couples with same type of body temperature and blood group do not get affected; in fact they enjoy the married life.

In the Modern times, the Medical facilities has grown tremendously. Now this type of issues are well looked after in the early days of pregnancy. Hence this Mangalik or Chevva Dosham can be easily ignored. By doing some remedies for Mars, the Couples can really enjoy the life.

MARRIAGE ASTROLOGY: WHAT IS MANGALIK (KUJA DOSHA)?

There is a common astrological word "Mangalik" that everybody knows by heart today. What does the word "Mangalik" means?


The word Mangalik refers to the Chevva Dosha (or Dosham) caused by planet Mars (kuja), when it is present in 2nd, 4th, 7th, 8th and 12th house from the Lagna. Let us find the effects of having planet Mars (Kuja) in those above mentioned places either for the Boy or the Girl or both.


1. There will not be any intimate relationship between the Couples.


2. The Couples would face disastrous events in their life.


3. The Couples get separated.


4. The Girl would become a widow.


5. The Boy would get separated from his Wife.


6. It would make a Boy to remain as a Bachelor for the entire life.


7. Both of them gets separated for the entire life.



But there are exceptions allowed for this Chevva Dosham (Mangalik). Let us see the exceptions that nullify the Chevva Dosham (Mangalik).


1. The Mangalik gets cancelled if Mars or Kuja is in its own house or in debilitated position or in exalted position.


2. The Mangalik gets cancelled if Mars or Kuja stays in conjuction with Sun, Jupiter and Mercury (anyone).


3. The Mangalik does not apply to those who has Cancer or Leo as Lagna.


4. The Mangalik does not apply, if Mars (Chevva or Kuja) stays 4th and 8th house in bridegroom's horoscope and 2nd and 7th house in bride's horoscope.


5. If Shani, Raghu and Kethu stays in conjuction or aspection with Mars (Kuja). 


For more on this Chevva Dosha or Mangalik, please also read Mangalik from the Medical Astrology section. This would make you to understand the misgivings about the word Mangalik. 


Go to Marriage Astrology for valuable information

Monday, 12 November 2012

MARRIAGE ASTROLOGY: GURU PALA

What is Guru Pala? What is its significance to the Marriage?

The Marriage happens when the Guru Pala (strength) is stronger; this is the general belief that everyone has. Even the skilled Astrologers predict and say that the marriages are posiible in the following month or year because of favorable position of Guru (Jupiter).

But the actual position is that Guru should not stand in unfavorable zodiac houses for both the bride & bridegroom at the time of their marriage. The position of Guru is calculated against the respective Moon Sign of the boy & girl. Let us find out the effects of having Guru in all the 12 Zodiac houses calculated from the respective Moon Sign of both boy & girl exactly during the time of their wedlock.


Hence Guru pala should be looked through this prism, instead of harping on the old theme of getting married by self declaring that the time is good for the marriage because of stronger Guru Pala either for the boy or for the girl. We have given the effects of having Guru in all the 12 Zodiac houses (with respect to Moon Sign). 



Serial No
Position from the Moon Sign
Results 
Rank
1
First House
Trouble in conceving
2
Second House
Monetary Gain
3
Third House
Couple may face critical moments
4
Fourth House
Loss of Comfort
5
Fifth House
Gift of Blessed children 
6
Sixth House
Couple may face critical moments
7
Seventh House
The Girl would be blessed
8
Eighth House
Abortion
9
Nineth House
The Boy would be blessed
10
Tenth House
Extraordinary delay in conceving
11
Eleventh House
Monetary Gain through wife
12
Twelth House
Inability in conceving 


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